Buddhist and Taoist funerals typically favour white chrysanthemums, lilies, and orchids. For an elderly deceased, deeper colours and even red may be appropriate. Card messages reference “rebirth in the Pure Land” or “returning to the Western Paradise.” Christian funerals often use white lilies, roses, and carnations, with wreaths or baskets. The language centres on “resting in the Lord” or “entering eternal life.” Non-religious or secular services offer the most flexibility—white and green arrangements with simple, neutral wording such as “In Loving Memory” or “Forever in Our Hearts” are universally inoffensive and quietly dignified.


